A memory could bring you a shiver. Either it’s frightening, embarrassing, traumatizing, or exciting. Memory could bring you to a sudden cold feet. It could also strengthen you somehow. Sometimes, I have a conversation with myself just for a self reminder. You know, such as……

“Do you remember on the first time you can ride 2 wheels bike?” You’re so proud of yourself you felt like you could master anything in the world. Don’t stop learning.

“Do you remember that time when your friend approached and complained on something silly you’ve done that could jeopardize your class relationship?” Oh, you were more than silly back then. Don’t let the emotion cloud your decision too much.

“Do you remember when you won that Futsal championship as a captain?” You can be a good leader. Don’t underestimate yourself.

“Do you remember when that Airport guy told you that your luggage was still left behind in Singapore when you’ve just arrived in Amsterdam?” You survived back then. In fact, you were so creative on surviving. And most importantly, you kept calm and just laughed on the situation. Don’t stop surprising yourself.

“Do you remember your first heartbreak ?” Oh, you cried a lot. More than it should be. It feels like you can’t trust anyone. But then you pray and pray and try again. You finally found the one even after several heartbreaks. Don’t ever give up.

“Do you remember when you finally step out of your comfort zone?” You were so brave. Don’t stop believing in yourself.

“Do you remember the first time your parents told you that your granddad passed away?” It traumatized you. It was your first deep sadness. Even before 5 years old, you already understood the meaning of love and family. Keep that in mind, will you?

“Do you remember your feeling every time you’re surrounded by your close ones?” You feel blessed. Grateful. You feel content. Just, don’t forget about it, will you?

A memory. A kind reminder.